Dads and cads: unravelling the mysteries of female partner selection
October 22, 2003
For long-term relationships, women like ‘dads’ — men who are kind, compassionate and monogamous. But for short-term relationships, women prefer ‘cads’ — the classic romantic dark heroes who are dominant, promiscuous and daring.
That's according to a new study by the University of Michigan.
‘About 60 percent of the women said they would prefer to have sex with a cad when considering a brief affair,’ said Dr. Daniel Kruger, a social psychologist at the U-M Institute for Social Research (ISR), an academic social science survey and research organization.
For the study, appearing in the current issue of the journal Human Nature, Kruger and co-authors Maryanne Fisher and Ian Jobling tested evolutionary mating theories using hypothetical scenarios involving classic cad and dad character types from 18th and 19th century British literature. The subjects were an ethnically diverse group of 257 female undergraduates at a large midwestern university.
The women read passages from Romantic novels describing two prototypical dads and two prototypical cads and answered a series of questions. While the women said they preferred dads for long-term relationships, they found cads more desirable as short-term mates. Their tendency to choose cads over dads increased as the length of the hypothetical relationship decreased.
According to Kruger, the findings imply that the dad-versus-cad distinction is intuitive to women and remains a key element of contemporary mating strategies. Women's preference for cads for short-term relationships supports what evolutionary psychologists call the ‘sexy son hypothesis,’ Kruger said. Even though cads aren't good bets to stick around and help raise children, the genes that make men successful cads will be passed along to their sons, who will increase their mothers' eventual reproductive success by providing numerous grandchildren.
Finally, Kruger noted, the distinction between dads and cads is intuitive enough that women showed a strong preference for dads as potential sons-in-law. Only 13 percent of the women said they would prefer to see an imagined 25-year-old daughter engaged to a cad.
‘A cad would be less likely to provide paternal support for offspring,’ Kruger said, ‘which means that a daughter might turn to the maternal family for help. That could adversely impact the grandmother's overall reproductive success.’
Sources: University of Michigan; Human Nature, October 2003